The Window

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man  was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour a day to drain the fluids from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.

The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and   families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military  service, where they had been on vacation. And every afternoon when the  man in the bed next to the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed would live for those one-hour periods where  his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and  color of the outside world. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake, the man had said.

Duck and swans played on the water while  children sailed their model boats. Lovers walked arm in arm amid flowers of every color of the rainbow. Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite  detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.  Although the other man could not hear the band, he could see it in his mind’s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive  words. Unexpectedly, an alien thought entered his head: Why should hehave all the pleasure of seeing everything while I never get to see  anything? It didn’t seem fair. As the thought fermented, the man felt  ashamed at first. But as the days passed and he missed seeing more sights, his envy eroded into resentment and soon turned him sour. He   began to brood and found himself unable to sleep. He should be by that  window – and that thought now controlled his life.

Late one night, as he lay staring at the ceiling, the man by the window  began to cough. He was choking on the fluid in his lungs. The other man   watched in the dimly lit room as the struggling man by the window groped for the button to call for help. Listening from across the room, he never moved, never pushed his own button which would have brought the nurse running. In less than five minutes, the coughing and choking  stopped, along with the sound of breathing. Now, there was only silence–deathly silence.

The following morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths. When she found the lifeless body of the man by the window, she was saddened and called the hospital attendant to take it away–no  words, no fuss. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the man asked if he  could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look. Finally, he would have the joy of seeing it all himself. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall.

Moral of the story: 

The pursuit of happiness is a matter of choice…it is a positive attitude we consciously choose to express. It is not a gift that gets delivered to our doorstep each morning, nor does it come through the window. And I am certain that our circumstances are just a small part of what makes us joyful. If we wait for them to get just right, we will never find lasting joy.

The pursuit of happiness is an inward journey. Our minds are like   programs, awaiting the code that will determine behaviors; like bank vaults awaiting our deposits. If we regularly deposit positive, encouraging, and uplifting thoughts, if we continue to bite our lips  just before we begin to grumble and complain, if we shoot down that seemingly harmless negative thought as it germinates, we will find that there is much to rejoice about.

Touching Life Story

A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For
many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's
showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told
him that was all he wanted.

As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited
signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the
morning  of his graduation his father called him into his private
study.

His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine
son, and  told him how much he loved him. He handed his son
a beautiful wrapped gift box.Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man
opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible. Angrily,
he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money you
give  me  a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy
book.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in
business.

He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his
father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He
had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make
arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had
passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He
needed to come home immediately and take care things.
When he arrived at  his father's house, sudden sadness and
regret filled his heart.

He began to search his father's important papers and
saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With
tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. As he
read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope
taped behind the Bible.

It  had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the
sports  car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation,
and the words...PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not
packaged as we expected? 
 

Have sex everyday to keep diseases away!

If you thought that the only benefit of sex was, well, pleasure, here’s some news for you. Making love is good for adults. And making love regularly is even better. Not only does it help you sleep well, relieve stress and burn calories, there are also several other reasons why you need to have sex more often.

Improves cardiovascular health
A recent study says that men who have sex more than twice a week, have a lesser risk of getting a heart attack, than men who had sex less than once a month.

Increases immunity
Regular lovemaking increases the level of the immune-boosting antibody immunoglobulin A (IgA), which in turn makes your body stronger against illnesses like the common cold and fever.

Reduces stress
Stressed out with work or family problems? Don’t let it affect your performance in the bedroom. Not only will having sex improve your mood, but a study has also proven that folks, who indulge in regular bedroom
activities can handle stress better and are happier people.

Relieves pain
If you’re using a headache as an excuse to not make love, stop doing that. Have sex instead, because, when you’re about to have an orgasm, the level of the hormone oxytocin increases by five times. This endorphin
actually reduces aches and pains.

Promotes longevity
When one has an orgasm, a hormone called dehydroepiandrosterone is released. This improves immunity, repairs tissue and keeps the skin healthy. Men, who have at least two orgasms a week, live longer than men who have sex just once every few weeks.

Increases blood circulation
Because your heart rate increases when you have sex, fresh blood is supplied to your organs and cells. While used blood is removed, the body also expels toxins and other materials that cause you to feel tired.

Sleep better
The sleep that you get just after you’ve made love will be much more relaxed. Getting a good night’s sleep will make you feel alert and overall healthy.

Improves overall fitness
If you find going to the gym mundane or working out at home a task, here’s another way to help you lose the flab and keep in shape. Regular sex will do wonders for your waistline. Half an hour of lovemaking burns more than 80 calories.

Increases levels of Oestrogen and testosterone
In men, the hormone testosterone is what makes them more passionate in the sack. Not only will it make you feel way better in bed, but it also improves your muscles and bones, keeps your heart healthy and keeps a check on your cholesterol. In women, on the other hand, the hormone oestrogen protects them against heart disease and also determines a woman’s body scent.

What is the Differences Between Successful People And You

Do you want to be successful? If you do, you must learn the difference between successful people and you. And this is exactly what you are going to discover in this article. What you need to do is to discover the difference and close the gap between you and who you want to become.

The majority of people is not successful because they do not know what it takes and what they need to do to produce the outstanding results to be successful. And below are some of the main differences between successful people and ordinary people. What you need to do is to acknowledge them and adopt the principles to become successful in your life…

1. Where you want to be : The first and the main difference is that successful people know what they want and they are always thinking about it. On the other hand, ordinary people are living their lives without knowing where they are heading. They live their lives without knowing what they want. As a result, they do not have control in their lives. This is what is happening to most people. If you are not clear with what you want, you will never produce the result that you desire. It is when you know your destination, you are able to move in the right direction.

2. Action : The second difference is action. Successful people are proactive and they make things happen. They are the ones who make things happen and they take consistent action to create what they want in their lives. Ordinary people are different. They wait for things to happen and they are not doing anything about what they want. A lot of people will tell you that they want to be rich or they want to start their own business, however, they are not doing anything about it. All they do is to talk about it without any real and solid action.

3. Love what you do : The final difference between success and ordinary that you are going to discover here is that successful people love what they do. They are passionate with their dreams and thus, they have all the motivation and the drive to take whatever actions that they need. Conversely, ordinary people do not have a strong passion for what they do. This is what causing them to feel lousy and is not passionate in their dreams. Do not let this happen to you. If you want to be the best, you must love what you do.
If you follow this three things in your life, you will also be a successful person in your life………………

So follow your dreams, do the actions in the same directions in which you want to go, love your work and success will be behind you……… so for what you are waiting for…… go & do what are you  have dreamed – today itself.…………………….

Why women have sex

Women indulge in sex not for love and passion, but for various other “unromantic” reasons— including relieving themselves of boredom, out of pity for a man and even to cure a migraine headache—says a new book.


Why Women Have Sex by Cindy Meston and David Buss has highlighted 200 reasons as to why women have sexual intercourse.

While attraction ranks way down in the list, it seems that women go to bed with their partners as a way of relieving boredom, keeping the peace, curing a headache and even as a thank you for a nice dinner.

“Research has shown that most men find most women at least somewhat sexually attractive, whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all,” the Telegraph quoted the authors, who are both psychology professors at the University of Texas, as saying.

The researchers interviewed 1,006 women as research for the book, and found some very surprising answers.

One revealed that she did it for a spiritual experience, as she thought it to be “the closest thing to God”.

Others listed “cure for stress headache”, “to make my sexual skills better” and “for a clearer complexion”.

However, the majority (84 per cent), admitted that they had sex to ensure a quiet life or to bargain for their partners to carry out household chores.

“I have sex to relieve the boredom. Because it’s easier than fighting. Plus it gives me something to do,” said one of the interviewee.

While another admitted: “I had sex with a couple of guys because I felt sorry for them.”

One of the surveys carried out by the authors revealed that one in ten women admitted having sexual intercourse in return for presents, or lavish meals.

Responses included “he bought me a nice dinner” or “he spent a lot of money on me early on”, “he gave me gifts early on” and “he showed me he had an extravagant lifestyle”.

Liberation is freedom from the finite

Form is a wave perceived by the ocean of consciousness in an attempt to understand its own formlessness. This duality is imagined and the sense of am-ness crystallises as a discrete entity that thrives on other forms or cognising entities to assert its own form.

It seeks cognisance from other forms to recognise its own transient form. What is eternal is the formlessness that is the precursor of form.

Form is obsessed with tangibility. The sense organs are mere instruments to reinforce this belief in form as the true self. The form continues to believe it is a discrete independent entity. It has total conviction in these deceptive sensory modalities of perception.

Relativity is based on the fact that perception changes as the observer’s state changes. One form cannot understand the precise nature of another form. Heisenberg’s Uncertainty Principle also underlines the shortcomings of our sensory perceptive modalities, where the senses cannot determine the precise position and velocity of a particle simultaneously.

Sensory modalities can never fathom formlessness. Formlessness transcends the senses. When form has to decipher the formless it must first abandon the conviction of its own form. The brain has various centres which serve as destinations for perceptive inputs. It therefore has a strong discriminatory ability to separate the subject from the object. This discrimination is mediated via the sense organs and is the most powerful tool for effecting duality. Comprehension is totally a derivative of the sense organs.

There are many ‘silent areas’ in the brain whose exact function is not known. These areas could be mediating supra-sensory cognition, cognition that is not based on a subject-object dichotomy, cognition that uses itself to recognise itself. Awareness of the true self is beyond the mediation of conventional sensory modalities and the dichotomy of knower and knowledge. There is nothing like ignorance because ignorance also is a manifestation of awareness. Awareness itself manifests as knowledge or ignorance. Both are just states.
Consciousness exists as both personalised and impersonalised states. Impersonalised consciousness is supra-sensory. It just exists and does not need a cognitive entity as a medium to be aware of itself. It does not have any time space definitions because these are for the finite. The Infinite Unmanifest has the privilege of manifesting as the finite. But the finite has severe limitations in perceiving the Infinite. Its identity as a finite entity is based on amnesia of its infiniteness.

Creation is the dream of consciousness. There is no logic to this dream. Realisation is when consciousness awakes from its own dream. Till consciousness is in a dream state, illusion persists. The brain is a programme for effecting the dream of consciousness. Myriad forms of creation exist merely as functions of this cognitive programme.

Matter or form owes its existence to this programme of deception. This programme also has software that ensures total belief in the illusion that it creates. Any attempt to understand the self – as just a manifestation of the formless – is futile in the dream state. The entity that endeavours to do so is also part of that dream. Therefore liberation is not of a person but from the person. Liberation is deliverance from the finite and its futile attempts to comprehend the infinite. It is when the infinite wakes up from the dream of being finite – cognition that can recognise itself as absolute and not resort to duality to assert itself.

The writer is a consultant neurosurgeon. Email: deepakranade@hotmail.com 

Read more: Liberation is freedom from the finite – The Times of India http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/spirituality/vintage-wisdom/Liberation-is-freedom-from-the-finite/articleshow/5208848.cms#ixzz18kBd8Aa2

Top Ten Tips for Improving the Quality of Your Work Life !!

We all desire to have a work experience that can fit with our personal lives. We all seek balanced life. Too often, however, peoples' work life is overpowered the rest of their life and when that happens, we find ourselves struggling to keep up in all areas of our lives. Hence, we should following the ten things to overcome the problem of struggling in our lives. These things will apply to the CEO as well as to the front line worker:

Have a personal vision: You should have your own person vision of what you want to be and what you want to do - keep in mind that if you do not have one for yourself, you will likely become part of someone else's vision!  There is a saying that “try hard to achieve your dreams else others will use you for achieving their dreams”. So keep your person vision about where you want to be after 2 or 3 or 5 years.

Test your vision: This is important that you should test your vision with that of your organization's - in how many ways do they support each other? Ask as many questions as you can to better understand your organization's mission, vision and values. This will boost your moral also.

Learn, and keep on learning: Nobody came with perfect knowledge in this world so learn as you can. Go to training sessions, enroll in college courses, read books, meet new people. You should know why the things has happened and not just how because this will give you new learning. With the questions like what, how, why, where, when you can get insight of the things you wish to learn. So keep learning and share experience with people.

Share the load: You should find the ways to share the load with other team members. Sharing the load makes work easier to manage and less stressful. Even for your learning experience also keep involve two to three of your friends or co-worker etc. you will get something new. By sharing your work you will minimize your work and by sharing your thoughts, discussions, you will better understand the work or clear the work problem.

Share your successes with others: This is the most important to boost your morale. Tell the people about your success that has been achieved by you. Learn from the successes of others.

Get it off your chest: Don’t keep your problem or trouble with you, just share it will your buddy, friends, supervisors. They will help you for overcoming your problems.

Find joy in being of service to others: Serve the other people, they are also in trouble and think about how the person you are serving is better off as a result of your work, and rejoice in that knowledge.

Take time for breaks: Pay particular attention to the need to refresh body, mind and spirit.

Try out new ideas: Be innovative to grow. By using your creativity and innovation, life will become exciting and fulfilling. By the success your morale will also be boost up.

Have fun at work: Laughter is the best medicine, but use only appropriate humor. Damaging someone else's self-esteem for the fun of it is no laughing matter.

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Top 3 Successful Habits (You Must Adopt)

Do you want to be a winner in your life? If you do, this will be the perfect article that you must continue to read on. You are about to find out the top 3 winner attitude that are adopted by every successful person out there. And if you adopt the same habit, you will produce the same amazing results in your life. You can achieve any target, goal and dream that you desire.

You have to understand that success is something that you repeatedly do in your life. It is not something that will happen in an instant. You are not going to become a millionaire overnight. Thus, success is determined by the actions that you take in your life. And your actions will be determined by your habits. Therefore, if you adopt the winning habit, you will produce winner’s results…

1. The first winner habit that you must adopt is this, you must have a clear vision. Always think and focus on your vision. You have to have a clear target of what you want. If you do not have a target, how can you actually hit it? It is just like driving a car, if you do not have a destination, you will end up nowhere. Thus, find out what you want to accomplish in your life right now. Set clear and specific targets and goals in every area of your life.
2. The second winner habit is to be proactive. Think about it, money will not grow on tree and it will not fall from the sky. You have to be the one who is proactive to take action and make things happen. If you are not doing anything, you will produce nothing. So make sure you do something each day so that you will move toward your goals and your dreams everyday. Action produces results. Stop putting things off. Watching television and chatting online are not going to change your life. Do what is necessary right now.
3. The final winner habit that you must adopt here is never give up. This is a common sense, but unfortunately, most people do not have this habit. How many rejection and failure can you take before you quit? If you quit, you will waste all the effort that you have poured in before. So do not quit no matter what. Treat failure and rejection as feedback that can improve your knowledge and skill. This is how Thomas Edison became one of the best inventors in the century. He treats all failures as feedback to improve and move toward his target. You have to be the same.

How to get Traffic to your site or blog

Building Traffic Secrets

This is where we start to get down to the definitely good stuff. Whilst we will not be able to begin to cover all traffic building methods in detail, we are going to cover the dependable and proven ones. In some cases these strategies are little employed or understood and thus greater for your purposes. Some are totally free, some are not, but we will focus on those that work for article marketing and your VRE (Virtual Real Estate) platform.

As an introduction and quick overview of what we will probably be covering, I will present a few of the ideas for building traffic to your web page or blog. Then I will go into a bit additional detail about a few of them, specifically when referring to article marketing.

Building Traffic Methods For VRE Web sites

• Search Engines - Feel of search engine traffic as free traffic. When an individual types in a search term (keyword) and your name comes up, it's totally free and most likely the very best technique there's. Do not focus on this and you are guaranteed to leave money on the table. It is not an exaggeration to say that VRE with out SEO (search engine optimization) is pointless. You should also understand that several of the other techniques for building traffic eventually lead back to securing search engine traffic, far more on this later.  

• Article Marketing - This technique flat out works! For very good reason it has become very well-known due to the fact of this. You'll be able to create an excellent on the web reputation for your web sites, and if performed correct may also bring that sought after free search engine traffic.

• Forum Marketing - This method is underutilized, but over the lengthy haul can be very helpful in domination of a niche and driving free traffic.

• PPC Advertising - Whilst well known, this is most likely the quickest, quick and most efficient tool for obtaining immediate traffic for your squeeze pages, email reports, affiliate links and to start building your list. You might have quite a few choices here beginning with Google AdWords, Bing and Yahoo Search. These are all well recognized and effective PPC (pay per click) networks. You pay every single time a person clicks on your ad.

• Paid Advertising - Similar in nature to PPC, but is typically based on an one-time payment as opposed to paying per click.

You may be familiar with these techniques already and if so, that is great. This will permit you to see tips on how to apply these more directly to your VRE info product enterprise. You must master these traffic building strategies in the event you want your VRE sites to turn into an empire and not merely a side show. Bear in mind, VRE internet sites largest source of building traffic will generally come from the search engines, and that's also very good.

In the event you follow these traffic building methods, there's nothing that can stop your website from being within the top 10 search outcomes for your targeted market. Do not let a person tell you which is impossible to do so.

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